Obama’s shameless ‘selfie’ at Mandela Memorial — If President Obama acts like this, don’t blame your teenagers

Obama’s shameless ‘selfie’ …    Barack Obama, David Cameron and the Danish PM  at Nelson Mandela’s memorial is disappointingly light-weight

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Children, behave: Michelle Obama is not amused by her husband’s selfie at Nelson Mandela’s memorial Photo: AFP/Getty Images

Are you a Fomo sapiens? Judging by his behaviour at Nelson   Mandela’s memorial service, Barack Obama is a member of this new   sub-species. So is our own Prime Minister, who should know better. The “Fomo” stands for Fear of Missing Out, a defining characteristic of a   generation with itchy thumbs and short attention spans.

Fomo sapiens cannot leave its phones, tablets or laptops alone, no   matter how inappropriate the occasion. Checking your texts or updating your   Facebook status during a funeral, for instance, or taking a happy-snap of   yourself with a couple of mates during a memorial service. Those, I hope we   can still agree, are times when the focus should be on the dearly departed,   who has gone to that undiscover’d country from whose bourn no traveller   returns. Until, that is, we get the first “selfie” from the Other Side. Lol!

Homo sapiens (wise humans) first appeared in the fossil record in Africa about   195,000 years ago. It seems only fitting that Fomo sapiens (self-obsessed   humans) appeared in Africa on Tuesday, in a rainy Johannesburg. The   President of the United States snuggled in close to Danish Prime Minister   Helle Thorning-Schmidt, politics’ answer to Cameron Diaz, to make sure his   smiling face was captured on her phone. Meanwhile, David Cameron launched   himself into the frame from the right like a grinning dolphin at an   aquapark.

Was this really a fitting way to mark the passing of Prisoner 466/64, a man   who, for 18 years, was kept by South Africa’s white-supremacist regime in an   8ft-by-7ft cell? Nelson Mandela was allowed to send just one letter and   receive one letter every six months – a deprivation inconceivable to Fomo   sapiens, who has to text, post or tweet once every six minutes to prove   that he is still alive.

Hang on, I hear you cry, aren’t you being a bit hard on what was just a silly,   casual photograph? Perhaps – but if the leaders of the free world don’t know   how to conduct themselves on a big occasion, what hope is there for   attention-deficit teenagers soldered to their smartphones?

I’m with Michelle Obama on this one. As Barack, Helle and Dave larked about,   Michelle, who was dignity personified in black lace, gave Barack the Wife’s   Death Ray Stare, the one that says: “You may think you’re having fun,   buster, but just you wait till we get back to the room.”

Where Mandela was always dignified, the Obama-Schmidt-Cameron trio looked   crass. Where Mandela was a highly disciplined grown-up, they looked juvenile   and self-indulgent.

Back in August, Jason Feifer, a Brooklyn-based editor, started a gallery of   Selfies at Serious Places on Tumblr. Feifer found a global parade of   doe-eyed teens posing in front of Auschwitz, in cortèges and crematoria,   writing gems like: “Love my hair today. Hate why I’m dressed up #funeral.”

The very worst picture – amid stiff competition – was of a boy gurning in   front of a coffin with the caption: “My friend took a selfie at a funeral   and didn’t realise his dead Grandma was in the background!”

Yesterday, Feifer announced that he was giving up Selfies at Serious Places.   Now that the President had appeared in a funeral selfie, “my work is done,”    he said. However, Feifer refused to condemn the cretins who take funeral   selfies, claiming that youngsters in previous generations would have done   exactly the same if they had had smartphones. “When a teen tweets out a   funeral selfie, their friends understand that [they] are expressing an   emotion they may not have words for. It’s a visual language that older   people simply don’t speak,” said Feifer.

I don’t agree. The funeral selfie is not an expression of emotion; it’s an   evasion of emotion. Twenty-five years ago, when my grandfather was buried, I   stood by the side of his freshly dug grave and I was drenched in sorrow. The   soft thump of the earth my grandmother dropped on his coffin, the crack of   the gravedigger’s spade, the tears coursing down my face, the women keening   all around me. This was death, that hard and serious thing: the dark backing   to the mirror, as Saul Bellow beautifully called it. There was no chance to   distract myself from grief; no beeping phone, no time to compose   140 characters, leaving room for a clever hashtag. No selfie to prove where   I was or what I felt. Who needs a photograph when life itself has never been   more vivid, or more devastating?

A study published this week claims that when we take a photo of something, we   are less likely to remember it. “When people rely on technology to remember   for them — counting on the camera to record the event and thus not needing   to attend to it fully themselves — it can have a negative impact on how well   they remember their experiences,” says psychologist Dr Linda Henkel.

What implications does this “photo-taking impairment effect” have for Fomo   sapiens, who photographs everything that moves without being moved, who   texts fast but has no time to think?

The great Cuban dancer, Carlos Acosta, told the Telegraph yesterday   that he believes there is a shortage of talent to succeed him because “with   phones, computer games and DVDs”, the younger generation of dancers is    “always distracted, always entertained”. Ballet, he said, by contrast, was    “very, very hard”.

Nelson Mandela knew the meaning of very, very hard. In one of his final   interviews, Mandela said that, despite the hardship, his long years in   prison had given him time to really think and expand his moral outlook on   the world. He became the free spirit, ready to act when the moment came, and   those who jailed him were the captives of their own prejudice. Homo sapiens   have seldom been wiser, or half as good.

That is why Obama’s Fomo sapiens moment on Tuesday was so   disappointing. More than any other world leader, he has tried to follow   Mandela’s example: be patient, take time to reflect, be slow to wrath. Why   blow it, on that of all days, for the sake of a moment’s distraction?

In his speech at Mandela’s memorial service, Obama said: “Let us search for   his largeness of spirit somewhere inside of ourselves.” Harken to your own   words, Mr President: “Inside our selves.” Not in our selfies.

A lot of discussion on this topic…

http://mediamatters.org/research/2013/12/11/denmark-babe-
danish-pm-objectified-for-sitting/197233

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Looks as if somebody will be sleeping on the Oval Office couch for a while.

First Lady Michelle Obama gritted her teeth in rage Monday as her husband treated Nelson Mandela’s memorial like a Justin Bieber concert, openly joking with the pretty blond prime minister of Denmark in the middle of the services.

The first lady’s icy glare seemed to be sending the message that the president’s antics were not fit for a solemn service for the world’s most respected human-rights leader.

But all of Michelle’s angry looks couldn’t kill her hubby’s inappropriate behavior — as he continued to laugh, flirt and whisper with Danish Prime Minister Helle Thorning-Schmidt.

The two leaders even posed for an iPhone “selfie” with British Prime Minister David Cameron.

The antics occurred as eulogies were being given inside Johannesburg’s FNB Stadium, where 91 world leaders had gathered to say goodbye to Mandela, who died Dec. 5.

The president’s glad-handing left Michelle Obama clearly furious and mortified. She refused to even look at what her hubby was doing with his fellow head of state.

And the first lady wasn’t the only one who was appalled.

“Why do Cameron and Obama feel the need to behave like idiots?” asked a blistering Daily Telegraph blog by British political columnist Iain Martin. “Why let a fuddy-duddy thing like manners get in the way of a social media opportunity, where we can put ourselves at the center of everything, clowning around like Muppets.”

Obama’s decision to take a selfie at the memorial like a teenager drew special condemnation.

“What selfish morons take a ‘selfie’ at a memorial service?” wrote one Twitter user.

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